Posts Tagged ‘lightness’

Don’t bother trying to please anyone…

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

sealofapprovalYou will never gain enough approval for you to get permission to be yourself.

PEOPLE PLEASERS UNITE! It is time to stop stressing yourselves about trying to get others to like you, to love you, to accept you, to approve of you, to respect you, to honor you, and everything else that you seem to want from them. You must go in your own direction, and the appropriate people will show up. It may not be today, or tomorrow, but in it’s massively abundance time, you will attract the people who can help you get where you want to be going.

Your job is to get clear about what your purpose is for your life and what you are here to do. The more definitive you are about your vision, the more you will see who is and who isn’t a part of that picture. (Step 1 – Paint Your Passionate Picture)

So many people are stressed out because they are either trying to make others conform to their ideal, or they are busy trying to conform to someone else’s ideal. Remember, everyone has an agenda for you – even your animals!

Check out the balance sheet. When you are doing more for someone than they are doing for you, then put your foot down and claim your power. The stress of shifting into your power will be difficult at first, because others want to keep control over you and they will get angry when you stand up for yourself. But the rewards will be worth it. You will ultimately feel an energy and lightness that will move you into your abundance. This is YOUR life. Step into it!

Step 6 – Do What Prospers You