If I keep resenting you….. How can I attract the good in my life?
Friday, June 26th, 2009
Diane, one of our coaching clients, was breaking up with her boyfriend, and because they were still living together for financial reasons, they were still involved with each other.
Diane had come to us because she knew we did a lot of work with the “law of attraction” and she wanted to focus on bringing in the “good” into her life. She was having a hard time because she resented the years she felt she had wasted with him and was just furious about it all.
We talked about how “massive abundance” and the “law of attraction” are about opening ourselves to the good that is trying to find us. And we agreed that one of the best ways to do that is to stay focused on what you want and how to, with as much love as possible, let go of the past.
Diane said that she and her friends were totally loving to each other, and that she really wanted a new and wonderful lover. But when we talked about David, her ex, she turned into a raging maniac. She described, with seething anger, how he had destroyed her life and that she simply could never forgive him. She wasn’t sleeping at nights since she was so stressed and she was losing her focus at work. She simply hated him!
When I asked her which she wanted more – goodness and joy, or anger and conflict? Of course, she said she wanted goodness and joy. She knew that MA (massive abundance) was totally about peace and happiness and that she really wanted it. Then I reminded her that it was almost impossible to attract the “good” when focusing on the “bad”. If the two of them could not live in harmony, then they needed to find a way to totally separate, as difficult as it might be.
In order to attract the “good” in your life, you must be willing to walk through the difficult times, trust that the “good” is truly trying to find you, and step into your massively abundant life!
Step 6 – Do What Prospers You!
